Hello wonderful reader. It’s been a while—actually, more than two years—since I last posted here. In some ways, it feels like a lifetime ago, and in others, like the blink of an eye. A lot has happened since then, the biggest being the birth of my second child. As any parent can imagine, life with a newborn (and an older sibling) is an incredible, beautiful whirlwind. But what I didn’t fully anticipate was how overwhelming everything would become.
At first, I thought I’d be able to balance it all. It worked well after I had my first child back in 2019. I started working on the blog and hosting language courses when the little one was 3 months old. So I assumed, it would be the same way with baby number 2. I figured I’d take a short break, soak in those precious moments with my baby, and then get back to work. But life had other plans. As much as I wanted to be “productive,” the reality was that I felt constantly overwhelmed. Between sleepless nights, the daily demands of a growing family, and the emotional rollercoaster of being a mom of two, I quickly realized that something had to give. And that something was work.
For the past two years, my focus has been on my family, and I don’t regret it for a second. I needed to be present, not just physically, but emotionally. My family needed me, and if I’m being honest, I needed that time too. I needed to figure out how to navigate this new chapter in my life and prioritize what really mattered.
But now, things are starting to shift. My little one is a bit more independent, and I’ve finally found a rhythm in the chaos. It’s not perfect—far from it—but it’s manageable. And most importantly, I feel like myself again. I have energy, drive, and the creative spark that had been dormant for a while.
So, here I am, ready to dive back in. I’m excited to reconnect with my work, my passions, and of course, all of you. It’s going to be a journey, but one I’m eager to take. I can’t wait to share more with you soon. And – from the bottom of my heart – thank you for sticking around and for your patience.
Here’s to fresh starts and new energy!
Living in Stuttgart – lookout
I have been blogging about the highlights and hidden gems of Stuttgart for over 10 years now. Before kids my life looked different than it does now. I loved to indulge in the many events Stuttgart has to offer. I went out to try new bars or restaurants frequently. Now, with two kids under 6, I spend a lot of time on playgrounds and in the nature. So as a logical consequence, the contend of this blog will shift a bit, too. I am planning new projects and topics at the moment so stay tuned.
Before I go, I’d love to hear from all of you who are fellow parents: How do you balance family life and work? Was it easy for you to get back to work after your baby break or was a it a bit of a struggle for you, too? Let’s chat in the comments!
Sabrina
• 2 days agoOh Melli, I’m glad you are giving yourself grace. Parenthood is so rewarding, but definitely something that takes a lot out of you. Glad you’ve found a balance that works best for you. I look forward to reading more!
Mellivinginstuttgart
• 5 hours agoThank you so much, Sabrina, for your kind words. Yes, parenthood definitely is an adventure 🙂 I think finding balance will be an ongoing task from now on.